Men - Can you please help me understand on game playing/approach/avoid?

He sounds like a waste of time....a flake. If he's this much of a coward, think what problems you'll have meeting him (if you ever do). You may avoid, avoid....to the point where he chases you and you both agree to meet up.....but once you agree, he may get cold feet again. It's your choice if you want this kind of headache in your life or not.